Am I to understand that Ms. Spears' fantasy is to have her will subjected and subverted by a man she doesn't love to become his sexual slave? Because that's what I'm getting here. Is this a common human fantasy? It seems very strange to me.
Really, here's the short version: She was running from this creep, he wanted to touch her, she wanted a career, he shot her with a magic arrow and made her his love slave, an she liked it.
I don't see another way to read that, but even for humans that seems pretty insane.